how many close friends do you have?
what do i even consider a close friend?
someone i feel comfortable to hang out with, without needing to say a word...
someone i want to share my stories with and want to hear theres...
someone i would go above and beyond for ( and would hope they would for me too )...
someone i make an effort to keep in contact with when they are not around...
i cant put a number on how many i have...
but i have enough...
i have great, wonderful, special friends who make my life amazing.
where did you meet?
i still keep in close contact with a few of my highschool/childhood friends...
the ones that were/are special to me know it because i won't let them fall out of my life and no matter how long it is between visits, when we get together it always feels like there has been no break.
the majority of the close friends i have today i met at/through university...
living on res you get really close to people, spending so much time with them, growing up, having soooo many new experiences, living together...
we got an amazing group of people together in fresher year (last year) and its still going strong now.
how long have you known them?
as mentioned above alot of my close friends i have only known for about a year and a half...
but then i also have those highschool friends who i have known for about 8 years...
and a special couple who i have known for almost my whole life!
are they mostly female or male?
in primary and highschool ALL my close friends were girls...
sure there were boys that we spent time with and that hung out with us as a group...
but i would never spend individual time with them and or spend time being the only girl with a group of guys...
ive got more male friends now and i love them...
they are really great guys (obviously, why else would i be friends with them? haha)...
but id still say im mostly a girls girl when it comes to close friendships.
do you have a best friend?
i dont like this term...
in highschool i could have always told you who my best friend was, but now we dont even speak anymore...
so yes, at any given time i may be closer with and spending more time with one friend above all others...
but i tend to go through phases and choose not to define any one person as a best friend anymore...
all my friends are unique, inspiring, amazing people...
and i love them all.
:)
xx